Counting the Cost

Counting the Cost

by Jill Duggar, Derick Dillard, Craig Borlase

Narrated by Jill Duggar

Unabridged — 7 hours, 7 minutes

Counting the Cost

Counting the Cost

by Jill Duggar, Derick Dillard, Craig Borlase

Narrated by Jill Duggar

Unabridged — 7 hours, 7 minutes

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A fascinating insight into faith and healing, Jill Dugger's life was anything but ordinary. Now she and her husband tell their story with refreshing honesty and empathy.

INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

For the first time, discover the unedited truth about the Duggars, the traditional Christian family that captivated the nation on TLC's hit show 19 Kids and Counting. Jill Duggar and her husband Derick are finally ready to share their story, revealing the secrets, manipulation, and intimidation behind the show that remained hidden from their fans.

Jill and Derick knew a normal life wasn't possible for them. As a star on the popular TLC reality show 19 Kids and Counting, Jill grew up in front of viewers who were fascinated by her family's way of life. She was the responsible, second daughter of Jim Bob and Michelle's nineteen kids; always with a baby on her hip and happy to wear the modest ankle-length dresses with throat-high necklines. She didn't protest the strict model of patriarchy that her family followed, which declares that men are superior, that women are expected to be wives and mothers and are discouraged from attaining a higher education, and that parental authority over their children continues well into adulthood, even once they are married.

But as Jill got older, married Derick, and they embarked on their own lives, the red flags became too obvious to ignore.

For as long as they could, Jill and Derick tried to be obedient family members-they weren't willing to rock the boat. But now they're raising a family of their own, and they're done with the secrets. Thanks to time, tears, therapy, and blessings from God, they have the strength to share their journey. Theirs is a remarkable story of the power of the truth and is a moving example of how to find healing through honesty.

Editorial Reviews

Vanity Fair

... [Duggar] candidly explains what it was really like to grow up
in the spotlight...

Salon

[A] complicated, remarkably relatable story of faith and family loyalty.

New York Post

Some admissions may just take your breath away.

The Los Angeles Times

One of the most powerful themes in Counting the Cost is Duggar’s quest to untangle her own beliefs from the fear-based teachings of the IBLP...

People

... [A] no-holds barred look at what [Jill’s] life was really like behind the cameras...

Today.com

... Dillard shares many eye-opening revelations...

Kirkus Reviews

2023-09-27
A measured memoir from a daughter of the famous family.

Growing up in the Institute of Basic Life Principles community, which she came to realize was “a cult, thriving on a culture of fear and manipulation,” Duggar and her 18 siblings were raised never to question parental authority. As the author recalls, she felt no need to, describing the loving home of her girlhood. When a documentary crew approached her father, Jim Bob, and proposed first a series of TV specials that would be called 17 Kids and Counting (later 18 and 19 Kids and Counting), he agreed, telling his family that this was a chance to share their conservative Christian faith. It was also a chance to become wealthy, but Jill, who was dedicated to following the rules, didn’t question where the money went. A key to her falling out with her family was orchestrated by Jim Bob, who introduced her to missionary Derick Dillard. Their wedding was one of the most-watched episodes of the series. Even though she was an adult, Jill’s parents and the show continued to expect more of the young couple. When they attempted to say no to filming some aspects of their lives, Jill discovered that a sheet of paper her father asked her to sign the day before her wedding was part of a contract in which she had unwittingly agreed to full cooperation. Writing about her sex offender brother, Josh, and the legal action she and Derick had to take to get their questions answered, Jill describes how she was finally able—through therapy, prayer, and the establishment of boundaries—to reconcile love for her parents with Jim Bob’s deception and reframe her faith outside the IBLP.

Dillard’s story reflects maturity and understanding from someone who was forced to mature and understand too much too soon.

Product Details

BN ID: 2940159788245
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Publication date: 09/12/2023
Edition description: Unabridged
Sales rank: 264,858
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