Table of Contents
Introduction: Turning Our World Upside Down 9
Part 1 Ourselves
1 The Good News That God Doesn't Believe in You: The Failure to Believe in Ourselves 29
2 What If I Just Want to Be Average? The Failure to Make a Name for Ourselves 47
3 Go Home, Heart, You're Drunk: The Failure to Follow Our Hearts 65
Part 2 Our Lives
4 Supermoms, Über Dads, and Other People Who Don't Exist: The Failure to Be a Perfect Parent 85
5 My Altar Has a Diesel Engine: The Failure to Search Out Our Calling 103
6 Love Will Not Sustain Your Marriage: The Failure to Find Our Soul mate 121
Part 3 Our Churches
7 Building Walls and Digging Moats? The Failure to Separate Ourselves 141
8 There's Mo Such Thing as a Personal Relationship with Jesus: The Failure to Have a Private Faith 159
9 The Church of St. Big Box: The Failure to Embrace Bigger as Better 177
Epilogue 193
Notes 197