Table of Contents
Foreword Kathi Lipp 13
Introduction 15
Part 1 Lose Who You're Not 19
1 You're Not Stuck Forever: So Celebrate Change 21
2 You're Not Exempt from Failure: So join the Club. … We're All Members! 29
3 You're Not Responsible for the World: So Roll the Elephant Off Your Chest 39
4 You're Not Denned by Your Past: So Lose Those Old Labels 48
5 You're Not a Country without Borders: So Draw Healthy Lines 57
6 You're Not Really Wonder Woman: So Breathe a Sigh of Relief 66
7 You're Not Alone: So Join the Women Flipping Their Flops 76
Part 1 Quick Reference Guide to Lose Who You're NOT 85
Part 2 Love Who You Are 87
8 Love Your Uniqueness: Because There's Only One You 89
9 Love Your Creator: Because Your Whole Story Has Purpose 99
10 Love Your Personality: Because You're at Your Best as YOU 110
11 Love Your Quirks: Because What Makes You Weird Is Wonderful 122
12 Love Your Gifts: Because You're Exactly What Your World Needs 132
13 Love Your Unique Calling: Because the World Is Waiting for You 142
14 Love Your Humanity: Because It's Better to Be Lost and Found 151
Part 2 Quick Reference Guide to Love Who You ARE 161
Part 3 Live Your One Life Well 163
15 Live in Animation: You're Meant to Be Fully Alive 165
16 Live Open to Redirection: A New Dream Can Give You New Life 176
17 Live in Restoration: Delight Is Your Birthright 188
18 Live in Celebration: You're Made to Seize the Yay! 200
Part 3 Quick Reference Guide to Live Your ONE Life Well 211
Conclusion 213
Love Who You ARE Personality Quiz 215
Glossary 223
Acknowledgments 227