Table of Contents

Preface: The Iceberg 7

Introduction: What's Really Going On Inside Your Husband 9

Part 1 The Foundation of Man and Manhood

1 Understanding "Provider" 21

2 Understanding "Protector" 29

3 How Providing and Protecting Have Changed 37

Part 2 Understanding Your Husband's Body

4 Understanding the Male Brain 51

5 Mr. T-The Stuff That Makes Your Man a Man 63

6 Men and Sex 71

7 What "Men Are Visual" Means 79

Part 3 Understanding Your Husband's Soul

8 His Soul's Greatest Need 93

9 What Your Husband Is Afraid Of 101

10 The Power Women Have Over Men 111

11 Why He Won't Share His Feelings 123

Part 4 Understanding Your Husband's Spirit

12 Why You Like Church Better Than He Does 135

13 How Men Relate to God-and Church 141

14 Why Your Husband Has a Hard Time Doing "Spiritual Stuff" 151

Part 5 So What's a Woman to Do?

15 Freeing Your Husband's Body 161

16 Freeing Your Husband's Soul 173

17 Freeing Your Husband's Spirit 187

Conclusion: A More Perfect Union 193

Notes 199