Grief's Country: A Memoir in Pieces

Grief's Country: A Memoir in Pieces

by Gail Griffin
Grief's Country: A Memoir in Pieces

Grief's Country: A Memoir in Pieces

by Gail Griffin

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Overview

An intimate look at widowhood.

Gail Griffin had only been married for four months when her husband's body was found in the Manistee River, just a few yards from their cabin door. The terrain of memoir is full of stories of grief, though Grief's Country: A Memoir in Pieces is less concerned with the biography of a love affair than with the lived phenomenon of grief itself—what it does to the mind, heart, and body; how it functions almost as an organism. The book's intimacy is at times nearly disarming; its honesty about struggling through grief's country is unfailing.

The story is told "in pieces" in that it is ten essays of varying forms, punctuated by four original poems, that examine facets of traumatic grief, memory, and survival. While a reader will perceive a forward trajectory, the book resists anything like a clear chronology, offering a picture of deep grief as something that defies the linear and explodes time. "A Strong Brown God" tells the story of two of Griffin's significant relationships—with her husband, Bob, and with the Manistee River—and includes the history of what drew them all together. "Grief's Country" follows Griffin from the morning after Bob's death through the first disoriented, fractured months of PTSD. "Heartbreak Hotel" takes Griffin on a tragicomical flight the first Christmas after Bob's death to a Jamaican resort—which includes an unscheduled stop at Graceland—where she contemplates the notions of home and haven.

Grief's Country will speak directly to anyone who has lost a dearly loved one, offering not one story but ten different faces of grief to contemplate. It will also appeal to general readers of memoir, including teachers and students of nonfiction, especially as it includes a variety of formal models. Those interested in the subject area of death and dying will find it useful as a book that bypasses recovery narratives, truisms, and "stages of grief" to get as close as possible to the experience itself.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780814347393
Publisher: Wayne State University Press
Publication date: 02/28/2020
Series: Made in Michigan Writers Series
Pages: 160
Product dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.50(d)

About the Author

Gail Griffin is the author of four books of nonfiction, including "The Events of October": Murder-Suicide on a Small Campus (Wayne State University Press, 2010). Her award-winning nonfiction and poetry have appeared in venues including The Missouri Review, The Southern Review, Fourth Genre, and The New Ohio Review, and anthologies including Fresh Water: Women Writing on the Great Lakes, a Michigan Notable Book.

Table of Contents

The Bride Wore Black 1

A Strong Brown God 2

Ghost Town 18

Grief's Country 46

"Write a poem in the voice of a widow whose husband has drowned" 69

Heartbreak Hotel 72

The Line That Carries on Alone 82

A Creature, Stirring 94

Toward Water 106

Singular Bird: A Discovery Log 108

Bodies of Water 122

The Messenger 128

Devastated 134

Postscript: Breathe 136

Notes 141

Acknowledgments 143

What People are Saying About This

Founding Editor of Fourth Genre: Explorations in Nonfiction - Michael Steinberg

A fiercely honest, deeply human examination of grief's gradations, shades, nuances, and degrees, as well as its life-altering consequences. An essential book for anyone who has lost a loved one or knows someone who has.

Sarah Einstein of Mot: a Memoir

Gail Griffin's lyrical Grief's Country is a deeply considered meditation on grief, grace, and surviving the unimaginable. It's a beautiful exploration of the human condition through the lens of loss.

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